I don't know

When things are going ugly with bf...
Is it better to leave him alone for a while - even if he says it's not necessary - or better stay?

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Kelly said…
I don't know....I wonder this myself all the time. I usually try to give some time alone (unless he specifically asks that I don't leave) so we can both have time to think and re-approach the subject when we're less upset (tears have dried, heart rates have gone down).

I'm sorry you're having a rough time!
August 17, 2009 at 8:24 PM
LK- Healthy Delicious said…
I think it depends on his persoanity and wht the problem is. I know when we have fights (not serious ones, but enought to yell) I prefer to be left along to cool off, and he prefers to talk it out (which inevitable leads to a bigger fight, since I try to go away and he follows me...)
August 18, 2009 at 3:48 AM
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